
Sometimes asking questions to understand the other's truth is more valuable. When you strongly disagree with another's position about something, sharing your own opposite beliefs may lead to conflict and cut off further conversation.
To create a dialogue instead of an argument, try asking them to explain their views in more detail.
Although you feel tempted to refute their position, keep listening and asking questions until you feel you understand how they have arrived at their beliefs, and why these beliefs are so important to them.
When you reach this point decide whether or not it now seems useful or important to share your own truth.

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